Ask most experts and they’ll tell you that how to rebuild trust is one of the hardest things to accomplish after an affair. For the cheater it means you need to show your spouse that you are sincere in trying to regain his/her trust. Which means that you have to become trust-worthy and transparent or in other words become an open book. The betrayed spouse also has to learn how to trust the cheater all over again.
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