Is it possible to have your marriage be devastated by an affair and still be able to reconcile with your former wayward spouse?
There are many positive stories of couples who have dealt with or are dealing with infidelity in their marriages, successfully overcome it and went on to rebuild a better relationship, but is it really possible for you to reconcile with your cheating spouse? Or are those couples whose marriages survive an affair just lucky?
It can be a real slap in the face to find out that the person you loved and thought you new is a cheater. The affair has taken away your stability and your belief in everything you thought was good. You find yourself struggling to believe what your cheating spouse says, while also struggling with your own internal thoughts and feelings. When dealing with infidelity, it is normal to feel certain negative emotions such as anger or feeling needy because your self-esteem is in the toilet. However, if you want to save your marriage and your sanity, you really want to try and lean how to manage these crippling emotions.