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Healthy Self-esteem Is Essential For Affair Recovery: Read This to Find Out Why

If there is one certainty in the aftermath of an affair, it is that it can tear down your self-esteem.

After the time, love, and trust that you have put into your husband and your relationship with him, a betrayal such as this can make you feel small, uncertain, and worthless.

In the blink of one thoughtless act, your whole world feels like it is crumbling down around you.

Your self-esteem is essential to every aspect of affair recovery. It is essential for you to move forward with your own life, and it is essential if you ever hope to rebuild and recover after your husband’s affair. Especially if you hope to have a healthy and happy relationship with your husband after the affair, you will need a healthy self-esteem to keep the relationship going. In fact, it may be one of the single most important parts of being able to move on.

Don’t Do These 12 Things When You’re Trying to Get Him to Stop The Affair

You’ve discovered that your husband is having an affair and you want to save your marriage. But your first thoughts and reactions come fast and furious and you’re not sure what to do. While there are many things you can do to save your marriage after an affair, these 12 things will not work.

My Husband Cheated on Me: How do I Stop Feeling Unworthy and Insecure?

Your husband cheated on you.

And with that one act you are left in a puddle of unhappiness and seemingly never-ending misery.

The affair has cost you plenty, in terms of:

Negative and obsessive thoughts.

Roller-coaster emotions

Haunting images of the two of them together

Feeling tense and anxious all the time

Your self-esteem is demolished

You feel unworthy and insecure

Your Husband’s Infidelity: Get Over it And Move On?

Or Are You Setting Yourself up For More Heartbreak?

You’ve heard the myth.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

And that goes over and over through your mind as you make a decision to try to get over his affair and move on staying married to your spouse.

While an affair is certainly heart breaking, if you take the time to learn about the facts you’ll see that it does not really have to spell the end of your marriage.

Rebuilding your marriage after an affair isn’t any chancier than deciding to end your marriage and start anew with someone else.

What to do When You Are Feeling Lost And Broken After Your Husband’s Affair

If your husband had the ability to anesthetize you so that you could not move, but you would still feel pain, and then cut your flesh over and over again, you think you would not be in as much pain as you are right now due to your husband’s affair.

Your heart is bleeding.

And you feel completely lost and broken.

You don’t feel as if you can ever get over the betrayal.