If your husband had the ability to anesthetize you so that you could not move, but you would still feel pain, and then cut your flesh over and over again, you think you would not be in as much pain as you are right now due to your husband’s affair.
Your heart is bleeding.
And you feel completely lost and broken.
You don’t feel as if you can ever get over the betrayal.
Are the disturbing images of your husband with his lover haunting you?
Do you find yourself visually imagining your husband being with his lover, over and over again.
Learning that your husband has cheated on you can leave you feeling desperately unhappy, lonely and yearning for simpler times.
A happily married couple shares extraordinary intimacy, both physical and mental. But in the aftermath of his betrayal, you find yourself plagued with visual images of the affair that haunt you day and night.
Obviously, you need to find a way to stop obsessively imagining how it was when your husband took his lover in his arms. That way lies madness.
How long has it been since DDay? A few weeks, months or even a couple of years? The most important thing is that you and your wayward spouse have decided to reconcile because you still love each other and you feel your marriage is worth saving, so you’re going through the whole recovering from an affair process. Yet, despite your husband’s best efforts to make amends, you are still struggling to overcome the hurt and feel like he just does not get it on the level you need him to be on.