Your spouse has had a sexual relationship with another human being – has been intimate with someone other than you.
Since learning about this cheating, you’ve been seething, stewing in what feels a lot like hate for the spouse you thought you loved.
You can barely keep your contempt to yourself; if you had a magic wand you would wave it and make your cheating spouse disappear. If this sounds at all like you, you need to change course pronto. Resentment will eat you alive.