After the adultery, you will transition among a myriad of emotions that you might not have expected. Some of them will be fairly typical, such as shock, sadness, and anger. Others might catch you off guard. Hopelessness is one emotion that can really take it’s toll on you.
Of all of the different thoughts and emotions that you will go through, feelings of hopelessness are the most dangerous. Feeling hopeless is your worst enemy because it can have dangerous affects on your mental health, not to mention the outcome of your marriage and the people around you.