What to do When You Are Feeling Lost And Broken After Your Husband’s Affair

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If your husband had the ability to anesthetize you so that you could not move, but you would still feel pain, and then cut your flesh over and over again, you think you would not be in as much pain as you are right now due to your husband’s affair.

Your heart is bleeding.

And you feel completely lost and broken.

You don’t feel as if you can ever get over the betrayal.

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You Had an Affair. Your Husband Has Resorted to Name-Calling. What Now?

An affair is to a marriage as a massive, jagged rock is to a ship in stormy waters. This is not to say that an affair will tear apart your marriage but that it could, if you and your husband allow it to. If your husband has reacted to your affair by calling you hurtful names and resorting to emotional abuse, you need to take firm action before the situation deteriorates even further.

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Your Husband Cheated On You. You Just Can’t Stop Thinking About It

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Are the disturbing images of your husband with his lover haunting you?

Do you find yourself visually imagining your husband being with his lover, over and over again.

Learning that your husband has cheated on you can leave you feeling desperately unhappy, lonely and yearning for simpler times.

A happily married couple shares extraordinary intimacy, both physical and mental. But in the aftermath of his betrayal, you find yourself plagued with visual images of the affair that haunt you day and night.

Obviously, you need to find a way to stop obsessively imagining how it was when your husband took his lover in his arms. That way lies madness.

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Why Me? Understanding a Cheating Spouse

cheating spouseWe can all imagine what it must be like to learn that your beloved spouse has had an affair – or we think we can.

It is not until you happen upon that passionate text message written to your husband or realize that your wife has not really been working late but has been spending evenings at a local hotel with a coworker that you know how you will react.

Learning that your spouse has been intimate with another is a crushing experience. It is not, however, one that you and your marriage cannot survive.

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Advice to Couples on How to Rebuild Trust After Infidelity [Podcast]

Ask most experts and they’ll tell you that how to rebuild trust is one of the hardest things to accomplish after an affair. For the cheater it means you need to show your spouse that you are sincere in trying to regain his/her trust. Which means that you have to become trust-worthy and transparent or in other words become an open book. The betrayed spouse also has to learn how to trust the cheater all over again.

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By the way, if you really want to know how to regain trust after infidelity, check out this free Podcast: “What About Trust?: Restoring And Rebuilding.” In this Podcast you are going to learn how to rebuild trust with your spouse and save the marriage.

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