In the aftermath of an affair, there are so many thoughts and feelings that process through your mind over an over again. Infidelity is perhaps one of the most common reasons that couples separate or divorce.
Often, many couples are not willing or even equipped to pull through the heart-wrenching process of recovering from such a hit to the relationship. But why is infidelity so hard to deal with? One would think that with such high statistics (it is said that 60% of men and 40% of women have extramarital affairs), that everyone would expect or be used to infidelity.
Yet when it happens, you are so floored that it can be hard to think of anything else, much less steel yourself to move past it. What is it about infidelity that tears everything apart?