Is Your Marriage Really Worth Saving? Doing an Honest Evaluation

is your marriage really worth saving

Ask anyone who ever got married, and they’ll tell you everything started out just great.  Each spouse paid special attention to the other, and both felt loved, appreciated, and fulfilled.

Skip ahead ten years and for many married couples it’s a different story.  Women feel ignored, men feel like their wives have given up, and nobody feels that special feeling that comes with young love.

But does that mean a marriage is over?

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Am I Stupid to Want to Save my Marriage?

am I stupid to want to save my marriage

If you have recently discovered that your spouse cheated on you, your first thought likely goes straight to divorce. After all, they say that “once a cheater, always a cheater”, right? Not to mention the embarrassment of your friends and family knowing that you’re even thinking of staying with the cheater.

There are so many things to think about when you find out your spouse cheated.

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50 Ways to Crush the Things That Are Keeping You From Happiness And The Relationship You Deserve

 

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Married couples whose lives have been disrupted by infidelity face a certain fact: their marriage will never be the same. Whether that leads to divorce or to a stronger marriage in the end, is in large part determined by how much effort and patience go into saving the marriage.

Partners who devote themselves to redefining their marriage after infidelity stand a fighting chance of ending up with an even better marriage than they had before.

One thing both professionals and those who have been there before you agree on is that you will need to alter your habits.

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How Alone Time Can Help Save Your Marriage

Do you remember the beginning of your marriage when you couldn’t wait to get off work and finish all your chores so you could see each other?

That’s the power of being apart.

Then, when you get together you don’t want silly issues to infect the time you have together so you both try a little harder and are on a little bit better behavior.

If that sounds superficial to you, you couldn’t be more wrong.

There is power in being apart, not just for your relationship together, but for your own mental health and well being.

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Healing Your Marriage When Your Heart Is Broken

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As you go through the feelings associated with infidelity, anger, sadness and an absolutely broken heart, it can be hard to imagine ever feeling normal again.

Much less actually saving your marriage and healing it to the point where you feel good about it again. The pain is so deep it feels irreparable.

It’s natural to guard your heart after an experience like that. When you get hurt, you tend to put up blocks to help avoid it happening again.

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