Obsessed With Comparing Yourself to The Other Woman? Six Reasons Why it is Time to Stop

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Amongst the wreckage and aftermath of an affair, there are many processes that many women like yourself go through before they are able to reach a place of healing.

One of these processes is an unfortunate phase of uncertainty and dangerously low self-esteem.

During this phase, many women begin to compare themselves to the other woman. They think about the other woman almost as much, if not more, than their adulterous husband.

Is she prettier than me? Was she better in bed? Did she make him happier than I do? Is she thinner/taller/fitter/sexier than I am?

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Healthy Self-esteem Is Essential For Affair Recovery: Read This to Find Out Why

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If there is one certainty in the aftermath of an affair, it is that it can tear down your self-esteem.

After the time, love, and trust that you have put into your husband and your relationship with him, a betrayal such as this can make you feel small, uncertain, and worthless.

In the blink of one thoughtless act, your whole world feels like it is crumbling down around you.

Your self-esteem is essential to every aspect of affair recovery. It is essential for you to move forward with your own life, and it is essential if you ever hope to rebuild and recover after your husband’s affair. Especially if you hope to have a healthy and happy relationship with your husband after the affair, you will need a healthy self-esteem to keep the relationship going. In fact, it may be one of the single most important parts of being able to move on.

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Your Husband’s Infidelity: Get Over it And Move On?

Or Are You Setting Yourself up For More Heartbreak?


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You’ve heard the myth.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

And that goes over and over through your mind as you make a decision to try to get over his affair and move on staying married to your spouse.

While an affair is certainly heart breaking, if you take the time to learn about the facts you’ll see that it does not really have to spell the end of your marriage.

Rebuilding your marriage after an affair isn’t any chancier than deciding to end your marriage and start anew with someone else.

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